However, the thought may pass through your head every now and then that none of these goals relate to who you want to become, how you want to grow, where your life needs to change, or how you are preparing yourself for the future.
If you are one of the lucky people who find themselves being and doing exactly what is right for you, you can probably skip the rest of this blog post.
But, if you are like most people, you have room to grow, ways to improve, and much to accomplish before you reach nirvana.
For the majority of us there are a couple of things that, if done effectively, can create a turning point in our career, and our personal life. These things are:
- Learning about yourself, who you are, who you want to be, and what is necessary to move yourself to your desired future. (Kevin Cashman's book Leadership From the Inside Out is a great friend and resource while you make that journey.)
- Every day do at least one thing that moves you toward becoming/being who you want to be.
The good news is that this dedication to improving, and investing in yourself pays huge dividends for the rest of your life.
You might say "That's a great idea. I'll start tomorrow." And, to that I would say "You pile up enough tomorrows, and you'll find you are left with nothing but a lot of empty yesterdays." (From The Music Man, by Meredith Wilson)
Start today. Put on your daily planner (along with Project A and Project B) to do one thing every day that moves you toward being who you want to be. Take the first step.
The first step for many will be to begin to get clear on exactly who you want to be, and what you want to do with the rest of your life. Some of you will be able to work this out for yourselves by devoting a little quality time to thinking over the question, either alone or with family or friends. Others may want to consider getting a little help from a coach or mentor who can ask some meaningful questions. Either way, get started! (See the footnote above regarding Leadership From the Inside Out)
Then, every day take one action, devote time to one thought, have one conversation, introduce yourself to one person who can help, read one article, tell one other person what you are doing, or focus a few minutes on your future.
Your journey of a thousand miles begins with that first step.
Before you realize what has happened, you will find that your feet are on a slightly different path; one that leads to a better destination.
Good luck on your journey.
For those who might be interested in a little reading on this subject, you might find David Whyte's book Crossing the Unknown Sea: Work as a Pilgrimage of Identity very interesting. Whyte describes his journey from his job as a marine biologist to his dream of becoming a poet in a way that will give heart to all who have a passion for making both life and work meaningful.